If you are new to the home and yard haunting for Halloween, I’m sure you’ve done a lot of research on the internet regarding headstones, graveyards, etc. There is a lot of information out there and some amazing pictures of some yard haunters set ups.
It can be a little discouraging if you are just getting started because most people, like us, with the big set ups and large Halloween graveyards have spent years building up their stash. To have a truly cool looking graveyard takes a lot of time and well, cash. Even if you make a lot of the props yourself.
When we started our graveyard years ago, we started out small. Most of the headstones from the earlier days have been replaced with the more realistic, custom ones. If you are just getting started, a great way to do that is by using things you might have just sitting around the house. We actually used to go dumpster diving because there was a lot of new construction near where we live. So many of our first headstones were made out of wood and painted.
Wood is definitely not as easy, in my opinion, to work with as the foam. But it is sturdy. We did find it more challenging to stake to the ground. With foam you can put a metal rod right up the inside of the foam.
Another method we sometimes use to vary our headstones is to glue pieces we’ve created using plaster of paris and molds on to the foam. Many designs we etch out of the foam, but the plaster of paris pieces are another good option and there are tons of molds to pick from. Once you’ve primed it and painted over it, it looks like it’s just part of the headstone.
We had some questions recently regarding our tombstones that I thought we would answer:
The foam from Home Depot is the pink sheets in the wood/building section. You can get the same type of foam at Lowe’s – there it is blue. Depending on the size of your tombstones, you can get multiple headstones out of one sheet. Left over pieces make great “markers” – small, rock type pieces that have maybe only a date on them, or nothing. We’ve seen these in many cemeteries – small little pieces propped up.

You do have to be careful about the paint you use as some (especially spray paints) will eat the foam. Some people use that technique to carve the stone. We use tools to do that. Latex paint is always the way we go. I put a primer on first, then the color. Check the “oops” paint section – that is where we have gotten most of our paints at a fraction of the price. Once you put a base coat on, you can start doing more specialized techniques to “age” your stones. Putting paint on heavier in areas where you think it would look like the stones would naturally “leach” minerals – then take a spray bottle filled with water, spray the paint, let it start to drip, and then what I do is use a dry paint brush to drag the paint down. I keep doing that until I get the look I want.
Finish your stones off by adding moss.
The tombstone Shane is working on here in the picture he just started. It is an Edgar Allen Poe headstone. He is carving out a raven on a branch at the top. With this headstone he carved out the areas around the picture to bring the raven out – sometimes he’ll do the opposite and etch the picture in – which is always easier as he can use a dremel for that. This technique takes longer.
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